Children often seek attention and want interest from the adult that they are talking to

Children often seek attention and want interest from the adult that they are talking to. Active listening is a way of doing this. It lets the child feel as if they are cared for and this lets them express their emotions when they know someone is actively listening. When listening actively, the child needs to have your full attention. You stop doing whatever you are doing at the time, look at the child and make sure that you are at the same height as them. This makes them feel equal to you and does not intimidate them. You need to let the child know that you understand. If you react to what the child is saying, it allows them to know that you have understood what they are trying to say to you. You can react by using non-verbal communication such as gestures and body language. For example, you can nod your head or shake your head to tell them that you have or have not understood what they are saying. You can also respond by saying yes or no to show them that you are listening. You have to remember to not laugh as this can dishearten the child and leads them to not expressing their feelings next time. Instead, you have to take their feelings seriously and make sure that you listen carefully to their concerns. When actively listening when the children are young, it makes sure that they know they have a teacher that they can trust. If actively listening is carried out, it allows for the child to be more open towards sharing their feelings next time.